Relationships - boyfriend and girlfriend

It is obvious that the situations and problems of others for children. So I thought it would be useful to divide this section for children. :-)

BOYS
To follow the guys out there, I understand exactly how you feel. As a teenager, getting a girlfriend is part of the whole package. But naive, often broken and abused heart. I'm not trying to say that all the girls are bad, in fact, some of my best friends are girls. But I had to do it through the stage of adolescence and error and learning from them was, I thought I'd share with you. Maybe this will help? Or maybe it will stimulate new ideas?


1. Understand that you are a teenager with raging hormones
Once in medical school, I learned that hormones have a significant impact on how we boys behave in the opposite sex. We only attracts some of them and we do not know, think clearly, if we do that. I mean, most of the girls you find that using a little clearer would be considered "hot" in mind. I think this advice is hard to follow because to some extent, can not be avoided. They have been made. But suppose you are aware that the best the next time you think young daring was directly passed a girl who wants to continue to remember. I guess "think with the mind, and act from the heart" is this. :) Dropoff window


2. Do not leave the device and release
This is important! Let be invoked, there is a fine line between something sweet for the girl he has done and just stupid enough to do much for them. Examples treating time or special occasions is quite normal. But not all the time, after all, is not the money you spend - is their parents. Remember that next time you decide to throw money out there for your friend. And besides, we do not want to be dependent on you or if you want to correct the wrong reasons? Be smart!


3. The judge is not a book by its cover
More often than not, growth always try a bride show for kids. A beautiful girl is exactly what the guys do jealous. Straight? Now please do not be so vain! We are all free, to some extent, but we will not control? Remember, however, that some of the best treasures are those. In the oldest, the most ugly treasure not only get a girl by his appearance that we are visual creatures, but will always be able to find mentally? Give it a thought. Do not just mean sometimes pretty girl who has the best heart, and I do not think it's worth all the attention of the world? Remember:


"I see you win a girl, but her personality is kept attracted to her"


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GIRLS

1. the importance of not rushing into relationships

In a relationship is like a pilot of a plane without predict in advance. People are complex beings and can never be sure of his true nature to interact with them for long. There are all kinds of guys out there with people who do not know simple. Remember to keep evil and go through the process of emotional distance. Now you may ask, how long to test the waters? I think there is never a point where we can be 100% sure, but can be roughly estimated by:
Glancing How do your friends and family (which is very likely, that eventually treat you) treated
-Know Your family (who probably share the same traits)
-with a constant open communication with others
-Ask Their closest to your opinion on the same friends (love is blind in many ways)
To know, If you share the same values as the other
-More Important to know the intentions of each with the relationship.

2. How not to fall into the wrong person for the wrong reasons
Wow, are the bad guys show up, like it or not ... then again running on your intentions / reasons I fell in love with the first person. I think there are three reasons why we should avoid:
- He is the man with the looks- and probably find another friend of yours to admire. I'm not so lazy = good personality appearance, but when physical appearance is the only attraction I do not see much future.
- Can provide wealth and prestige - there is a tendency to enjoy below its value.
- He is always there for you - always good relationship for the sake of it is not just for the sense of security.
Enjoy those around you and be open on the performance of individuals, including the right is peer pressure alongJ a partner can shoot, but the truth is always worth waiting to roll.


3. How to avoid obvious to kids 'art' girls wear.


Well I do not think you can rule out direct or giving back to those who you think you are trying to "show the movements of" take it with humility as a form of flattery. However, there are extreme cases where the position is clear that he has no interest, perhaps a trusted friend to play with regular guy can do through a text message, or even directly in advance (politely, of course ), which also has, however, feels comfortable. The feelings of a man is not something to play with me, sometimes it's like playing with fire you. Never really have control over it, so it is important to clarify its position on occasion, some of the boys and girls to embellish the last time, when acting as an honest person out and find friendship in manufacturing.